Why Thinking About Death Can Help You Live a Better Life

Have you ever wondered why thinking about death could actually help you live a better, fuller life? In this article, you’ll gain a clearer perspective on what truly matters, feel more in control of your future, and learn how a little planning today can bring peace of mind for you and the people you love.

Most people don’t like talking about death.

I get it.

As a lawyer, I see this hesitation every day, and as a human being, I understand why it feels uncomfortable.

But here’s the honest truth I’ve learned through years of working with families: thinking about death isn’t morbid, it’s actually one of the healthiest things you can do for your life.

When we avoid the topic, we often drift through life on autopilot.

When we face it, even gently, we start living with more purpose.

Thinking about death has a way of sharpening our focus.

It reminds us that time is limited, which makes our choices more meaningful. Even the ancient stoic philosophers, like Marcus Aurelius, lived by the moto Memento Mori - remember that you shall die - meaning that we make better choices when re remember that life is short and we should live it to the fullest.

People who reflect on this tend to prioritise relationships, look after their health, and stop putting off important decisions.

That includes legal and financial decisions too.

I’ve seen clients who only start planning after a crisis, and I’ve seen others who plan early and live with far less stress.

The difference is clarity.

When you accept that life isn’t endless, you naturally ask better questions.

Am I spending time on what matters?

Have I protected the people I love?

Would my family know what to do if something happened to me?

These questions aren’t about fear.

They’re about care.

Thinking about death early allows you to make calm, rational choices rather than rushed ones.

It gives you the chance to decide who will look after your children, who will manage your affairs, and how your assets should be distributed.

That kind of planning is an act of love.

It also reduces the emotional and financial burden on your family during an already difficult time.

I often tell clients that estate planning isn’t about preparing to die, it’s about preparing to live well.

Once these matters are sorted, people feel lighter.

They sleep better.

They focus more on living, not worrying.

There’s also something empowering about taking control.

Instead of leaving decisions to chance or the courts, you decide your legacy.

You decide the story you leave behind.

And interestingly, once people face this topic head-on, they often become more present in their everyday life.

They value small moments.

They communicate more honestly.

They stop postponing important conversations.

Thinking about death doesn’t shorten your life.

If anything, it helps you live it more intentionally.

Facing mortality isn’t about fear, it’s about clarity, intention, and care for the people you love.

When you allow yourself to think about the end, you often discover how to live better right now.

A little thought about the future can remove a lot of stress from the present and protect the people who matter most.

If this article made you pause and reflect, that’s a good place to start.

If you need help turning those thoughts into a clear plan, we’re here at HazeLegal to support you every step of the way.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2026.

The Funeral Theory

Have you ever wondered how you would be remembered when you’re gone and whether you’re living the life you truly want, not the life everyone else expects of you? In this blog post, I’ll unpack the viral “Funeral Theory” trend that’s stirring up reflection about life, legacy and priorities, and show you how this simple idea can help you live more intentionally and authentically, right now. By the end, you’ll see how shifting your focus could change not just how you live, but who you’re living for.

Why This Matters

I get asked a lot by clients why planning your life and your legacy matters, and something called the “Funeral Theory” is helping lots of people start that conversation for themselves. It’s trending online because it forces us to pause and think: are we living our lives for the applause of the crowd or for the people and values that truly matter?  

What the Funeral Theory Really Says

The Funeral Theory suggests that at the average funeral, only about ten people genuinely cry, and that even fewer may turn up if the weather’s bad. That’s a stark way of saying most of our effort goes into pleasing people who wouldn’t even stand in the rain for us.

But as powerful as that imagery is, it isn’t a literal rule. Experts remind us that grief looks different for everyone, and attendance numbers or visible tears don’t measure love or impact.

Why It’s Resonating With People

This idea has struck a chord with many because it highlights something deeper: we often chase approval, validation, or acceptance from people who don’t actually shape our lives in meaningful ways. When faced with our own mortality or loss, those superficial concerns suddenly seem trivial.

How This Links to Legacy

As a lawyer who helps people think about wills and estate planning every day, I can tell you that legacy isn’t about popularity. Legacy is about meaningful relationships, the values you stand for, and the people you truly care about. That’s similar to what psychologists say, it’s not the number of people in a funeral pew that tells your story, it’s the consistency of the love and kindness you’ve shown.

Legal & Personal Planning: A Reality Check

This theory also reminds us that if we spend our lives trying to please everyone, we may overlook preparing for the things that really matter — like organising our affairs so our loved ones are cared for, and making sure our values are honoured when we’re not around. This is why estate planning and honest conversations with family aren’t morbid — they’re acts of care and clarity.

Living With Intent

The takeaway isn’t to obsess over a funeral guest list. Rather, it’s to live with intention:

• Set boundaries so you aren’t drained by people-pleasing

• Focus relationships on those who genuinely matter

• Define what success and fulfillment mean to you, not to the crowd

• Be authentic and brave, even if some won’t understand

These are life lessons that align both with the viral theory and with good legal and personal planning wisdom.

The funeral theory is a wake-up call to live for what truly matters — not everyone else’s expectations. That’s as true in your personal life as it is in how you plan for the future. If you’d like help bringing that clarity into your legal and estate plans, I’m just a call away. If you need help, we’re here at HazeLegal.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2026.

Why You Need to Plan Your Estate Now, Not Later

I know it can feel a bit uncomfortable to talk about death, and I get why people tend to push estate planning to the bottom of the to-do list.

But here’s the truth I tell all my clients: you can go at any time, and none of us ever really gets a warning.

That’s exactly why getting your estate plan sorted now—while you’re healthy, busy, and living your life- is one of the most important decisions you can make.

As a lawyer who helps families navigate messy estates far too often, I’ve seen what happens when people leave things “for later.”

And I’ve also seen how much peace it gives families when things are set out clearly and legally.

I want to walk you through why it matters so much.

1. You Protect Your Family’s Financial Future

When you have a solid will or estate plan, you’re making sure your loved ones don’t face financial uncertainty on top of grief.

It removes confusion, stops avoidable disputes, and lets your family access what they need without stress.

2. You Control How Your Story Is Carried On

Your estate isn’t just about money.

It’s about your values, the things you’ve worked hard for, and the people you want to look after.

A well-planned estate helps you preserve your legacy—your way.

3. You Save Your Family From Legal Headaches

Without a plan, the law steps in for you, and trust me, it’s never as smooth as people imagine.

Probate can take longer, cost more, and leave your family dealing with unnecessary complications at the worst possible time.

4. You Get Peace of Mind Today

The moment clients sign their estate documents, the first thing they always say is, “I feel lighter.”

Planning ahead means you don’t have to wonder, worry, or keep thinking, “I’ll get to it someday.”

It’s done, and you can go back to living.

Why I’m Telling You This

I’m telling you this because I’ve seen too many families scramble and stress when things could have been so much easier.

My goal is simple: to help you avoid that.

If you take action now, you’ll be giving your future self—and your loved ones—a gift they will genuinely appreciate.

If you need help getting started, I’m here at HazeLegal.

Planning your estate isn’t about expecting the worst—it’s about caring enough to prepare for the unexpected.

If you want to protect the people you love and make sure your wishes are honoured, now is the best time to begin.

If you need help with your estate planning, I’m here at HazeLegal to guide you every step of the way.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2026.

New Year, New Estate Plan

Are you starting the new year with goals that actually protect your future?

In this blog, I’ll walk you through why updating or creating your estate plan is one of the smartest New Year’s resolutions you can make, what life changes should push you to review your documents, and how doing it properly can save your family stress, confusion, and conflict. By the end, you’ll know exactly why an estate plan belongs on your 2026 to-do list and how it can give you peace of mind all year long.

NEW YEAR, NEW ESTATE PLAN

I always find that the start of a new year brings a feeling of hitting “reset,” and it’s the perfect moment to look at the things we often put off, including our estate plan.

Even though there’s never a bad time to sort out your Will or update it, the days following 1 January are a great reminder that life moves fast and your documents should keep up.

I see it all the time: people set up a Will years ago and assume it still fits their life.
But life isn’t a “set and forget” situation.

Relationships change, families grow, new assets come in, old ones go out, and sometimes people you once trusted aren’t the right choice anymore.

If you’ve had any major changes — a new child, a separation, buying property, starting a business, losing a loved one, or even just a shift in your goals — your estate plan should reflect that.

An outdated plan can cause delays, confusion, or conflict later on, and I’ve seen families go through unnecessary stress simply because a document wasn’t updated.

Getting a lawyer involved means everything is done properly, and your wishes are protected the way you intended.

My purpose here is simple: I want you to start your year knowing your loved ones are protected, and your affairs are in order.

If “sort out my estate plan” lands somewhere in your New Year’s resolutions, that’s a decision that can genuinely make 2026 smoother, safer, and much more secure for you and your family.

A new year always gives us a chance to reassess what really matters, and an updated estate plan is one of the simplest but most meaningful ways to protect the people you love.

Your future deserves attention this year, and reviewing your estate plan is a great place to start. I’m always here to guide you through it. If you need help, we're here at HazeLegal.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2026.

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Guardianship & Capacity Planning

Have you ever wondered who would make important decisions for you if you suddenly couldn’t? In this post, I’ll walk you through everything you need to know about Power of Attorney, guardianship, and incapacity planning — so you can protect your future, your wishes, and your loved ones with confidence.

Understanding Guardianship and Capacity Planning

                  No one likes to think about losing the ability to make their own decisions. But life is unpredictable. Illness, injury, or ageing can sometimes affect a person’s capacity to manage their affairs or make important choices about their health, lifestyle, or finances.

                  That’s where guardianship and capacity planning come in. It’s all about making sure someone you trust can legally step in and make those decisions if you ever can’t.

                  As a lawyer who’s helped many families through this process, I can tell you this — planning ahead can make all the difference. It’s not just about legal documents; it’s about peace of mind.

What Is a Power of Attorney?

                  A Power of Attorney (POA) is a legal document that lets you appoint someone to act on your behalf when it comes to financial or personal matters.

                  There are a few types of Powers of Attorney in Victoria:

• General Power of Attorney – effective only while you still have capacity, usually for business or short-term situations.

• Enduring Power of Attorney – continues even after you lose capacity, covering financial and personal decisions.

• Medical Treatment Decision Maker – someone you appoint to make medical decisions for you if you’re unable to do so yourself.

                  Think of it as a safety net — you stay in control now by deciding who can make decisions for you later.

When Guardianship Comes Into Play

                  If someone doesn’t have an Enduring Power of Attorney and loses capacity, the Victorian Civil and Administrative Tribunal (VCAT), or Tribunal in your State may need to appoint a guardian or administrator.

                  A guardian looks after personal and lifestyle matters, for example where the person lives or what services they receive.

An administrator handles financial affairs, such as paying bills and managing property.

                  The problem is, guardianship appointments can take time and can cause stress for families, especially when there’s disagreement about what’s best. That’s why it’s so important to plan ahead — to save your loved ones from uncertainty and conflict. Further you will not have any control who is appointed if you do not make a nomination while you still can. Your administrator can charge you for this service and it can be substantial.

How Do You Know If Someone Has Capacity?

                  Capacity is about whether a person can understand the decisions they’re making and the consequences that come with them.

                  Capacity can change over time or vary depending on the decision. For example, a person might be able to decide what to eat for lunch but not understand a complex financial agreement.

                  In legal terms, we look at whether a person can:

• Understand information relevant to the decision.

• Weigh up the pros and cons.

• Communicate their choice clearly.

                  If there’s any doubt, it’s best to get a professional medical assessment and legal advice before taking any further steps.

Why Incapacity Planning Matters

                  Planning for incapacity isn’t just for the elderly — it’s for anyone who wants to make sure their life continues smoothly even if something unexpected happens. If you have assets that you want to protect then you need to make the decision for yourself and appoint an power of attorney rather than leave it to chance that a stranger will step in and take over.

                  Without proper planning:

• Your loved ones may need to go through VCAT for authority.

• Your wishes may not be followed.

• Family disagreements can arise over care or finances.

• State administrators can be appointed who are completely unknown to you. You are then just a file reference.

                  By putting a plan in place now, you’re not just protecting yourself — you’re protecting the people you care about from added stress and heartache.

How I Can Help

                  I’ve seen firsthand how guardianship and incapacity planning can prevent long, emotional, and costly disputes. My goal is to make the process simple and approachable, so you can have a clear plan that reflects your values and wishes.

                  Whether you’re preparing a Power of Attorney, reviewing an existing plan, or helping a loved one who’s lost capacity, I can guide you through every step — in plain English, without the legal jargon.

The best time to plan for incapacity is before you need to. Let’s make sure your future and your loved ones are protected. Reach out to us at HazeLegal for straightforward advice tailored to your situation.

The Secret to a Perfect Super Death Nomination Is Easier Than You Think

Did you know your superannuation might not automatically go to who you think when you pass away? Many Australians assume their Will covers everything, but that’s not always the case. In this post, you’ll learn how your super, pension, and Will actually work together, and the simple secret to making sure your super ends up exactly where you want it to go.

When most people think about their estate, they imagine their Will taking care of everything — the house, the bank accounts, the savings, even the super. But here’s the thing: your superannuation doesn’t automatically form part of your estate.

I often see clients shocked when they realise that their super fund — not their Will — decides where their money goes after they pass away. If there’s no valid death benefit nomination in place, the fund trustee gets the final say. And that’s where things can go wrong.

Let’s talk about how you can avoid that.

What happens to your super when you die?

Your superannuation balance (and any life insurance attached to it) doesn’t automatically go to your estate. The super fund holds it in trust until it decides who gets it. This means your money could go to someone you didn’t intend — like an ex-partner or estranged family member — simply because the right paperwork wasn’t done.

Binding vs. Non-binding nominations

The key to controlling your super after death is a death benefit nomination.

A binding nomination tells your fund exactly who to pay. It’s legally enforceable as long as it’s valid and up to date (most expire after three years unless you have a “non-lapsing” one).

A non-binding nomination, on the other hand, is just a suggestion. The trustee can still override it.

So, the “secret” to the perfect super death nomination? Make it binding, current, and aligned with your Will.

How super, pensions, and Wills work together

Your super and pension are separate from your Will — but they can work hand in hand. The goal is to make sure everything flows smoothly and consistently.

If you nominate your estate as the beneficiary of your super, the money will go into your estate and be distributed under your Will. That’s great if you have a solid estate plan in place.

But if you want the funds to go directly to a spouse, child, or dependent (without going through probate), you can name them directly on your super form.

The trick is to get advice that ties all three together — your super, your pension, and your Will — so there’s no confusion, tax issue, or dispute later.

Common mistakes people make

I see people make the same few mistakes over and over again:

• Forgetting to update their nomination after a divorce or new relationship.

• Not realising their nomination has expired.

• Assuming their Will covers their super (it doesn’t, unless nominated properly).

• Naming someone who doesn’t qualify under super law.

• Not getting tax advice as to minimize your tax liabilities to you or your beneficiaries.

These small oversights can cause big headaches — or worse, legal battles among family members.

The easy fix

The good news? Sorting it out is easier than you think.

All you need is:

1. A valid and up-to-date binding death nomination.

2. A Will that complements your nomination.

3. Professional advice to make sure everything fits together.

Once you’ve done that, you’ll have peace of mind knowing your money will go exactly where you want — no surprises, no delays, and no drama.

You could also include an equalisation clause in your Will, properly drafted by a lawyer to equalize distributions from your estate to take into account any distributions that your Super may have made so that yu achieve the same overall outcome with the sharing of your estate amongst your beneficiaries.

It only takes a small amount of planning to prevent big problems later. Make sure your Will, super, and pension all work together. If you’re unsure where to start, reach out to us at HazeLegal — we’ll make the process clear and stress-free.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

The 3 a.m. Problem: What Happens if You’re Incapacitated Without a Plan

This blog explores what happens in those unexpected, middle-of-the-night emergencies where you or a loved one is suddenly unable to make decisions – and there’s no Power of Attorney in place. We’ll walk through real-life scenarios, the legal consequences, and why setting up the right documents now can save your family stress, time, and money later.

The 3 a.m. Problem:

What Happens if You’re Incapacitated Without a Plan

            It’s 3 a.m. and your phone rings.
            It’s the hospital.
            A loved one’s been in an accident and is unconscious. The doctor needs urgent consent for treatment, but there’s no Power of Attorney. Now what?

            These moments are where life throws us into a whirlwind — when decisions can’t wait until morning, and yet, no one has the legal authority to make them.

When there’s no Power of Attorney

            Many people think their spouse, partner, or adult children can automatically make decisions for them. In reality, without the proper legal authority, hospitals, banks, and government agencies may not accept their instructions.

            It’s not about them not caring — it’s the law.

            If you’re unable to decide for yourself and there’s no Power of Attorney, your family may have to go to the Guardianship and Administration Tribunal or VCAT to be appointed. This process takes time, costs money, and often happens during an already stressful crisis.

Real-life 3 a.m. Scenarios

• Medical emergency: You’re in surgery, and the doctor needs to change the procedure due to complications. No Power of Attorney means the hospital has to wait for the legally recognised decision-maker — delaying treatment, particularly where there is no next of kin.

• Financial freeze: You’re in hospital for weeks, and bills are piling up. Without authority, your family can’t access your accounts to pay them.

• Aged care admission: After a stroke, you need to be moved into care quickly. Without the right documents, your family faces delays in signing admission paperwork or arranging your finances.

Why this matters now, not later

            Emergencies rarely happen at convenient times. It’s not just about “if” — it’s about “when”. Having a Power of Attorney means someone you trust can make decisions for you immediately, without having to jump through legal hoops while you’re in a hospital bed.

            It’s a safety net you hope you never have to use — but you’ll be grateful it’s there.

The peace of mind factor

            Planning ahead isn’t about being pessimistic — it’s about protecting your dignity, your wishes, and your loved ones from unnecessary stress.

You can’t predict when the 3 a.m. call will come, but you can make sure your family is prepared to act when it does. Setting up a Power of Attorney now means decisions can be made quickly, confidently, and according to your wishes.

If you want to make sure your loved ones never face the 3 a.m. problem, we’re here to guide you at HazeLegal.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

The Silent Heir: Leaving Assets to Someone Who Doesn’t Know

While the idea might seem like a heartfelt surprise, it can actually lead to legal delays, emotional stress, and even disputes among family members. We’ll break down why transparency matters, what can go wrong, and how to plan your estate so your wishes are carried out smoothly.

The Silent Heir:

Leaving Assets to Someone Who Doesn’t Know

            Imagine finding out you’ve inherited something from someone you cared about—but you had no idea you were even in their will. For some, this sounds like a touching surprise. For others, it can be overwhelming, confusing, or even unwanted.

            When you secretly name someone in your will, you might think you’re creating a beautiful gift. But in reality, you could be setting them up for unexpected challenges. From legal delays to tax implications, there are many things people don’t realise about being an unknowing heir.

            One common problem is that the person may not be prepared—financially, emotionally, or legally—to receive the asset. If it’s property, they might face rates, maintenance costs, or even disputes with other family members. If it’s money, there could be tax or Centrelink considerations they’ve never dealt with before.

            It can also lead to family tension. Other beneficiaries might feel blindsided or even suspicious about your choice, which can open the door to will disputes. That means more time in court, higher legal costs, and a longer wait before your wishes are honoured.

            As lawyers, we’ve seen how these situations can spiral into something far more stressful than intended. Estate planning is not just about deciding who gets what—it’s about making sure those decisions are understood and can be carried out without unnecessary friction.

            If you want your gift to be truly meaningful, it’s worth having an honest conversation with the person while you’re still around. This allows them to prepare, ask questions, and even decline if they feel it’s not right for them. Better still leave a written document explaining your reasons, and upload it into your Digital Vault so the right people get it.

Leaving assets to someone without telling them might seem romantic or generous, but it often causes more harm than good. Open communication, clear documentation, and proper legal advice can ensure your estate plan works exactly as you intended. If you’re unsure how to start that conversation or structure your will, we’re here to help at HazeLegal.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

The Hidden Clauses in Wills That Could Change Everything

Small details in a will can have a massive impact on how an estate is shared. Often overlooked, these “hidden clauses” can create unexpected outcomes for families, sometimes leading to disputes, delays, or even the opposite of what the will-maker intended. Understanding them early can save a lot of stress, money, and heartache.

They’re Just Words… Until They’re Not
            Most people think a will is straightforward: it says who gets what, and that’s that. But in my experience, the surprises often come from small, barely noticeable clauses buried in the fine print. These little lines can carry big legal weight, and sometimes they completely change the way assets are divided.

What Exactly Are Hidden Clauses?
            Hidden clauses aren’t “secret” in the sense of being concealed from view, they’re right there in the will. The problem is, they’re often written in legal terms most people don’t fully understand, or they’re so subtle they don’t seem important at first glance. For example, a survivorship clause could mean someone must outlive the will-maker by a certain period to inherit. Miss that detail, and you could miss out entirely.

Why Families Should Pay Attention
            I’ve seen families shocked to learn that a small clause overrode what they thought was the main intention of the will. This can lead to misunderstandings, disputes, and sometimes expensive legal battles. The fallout isn’t just financial, it can fracture relationships at a time when families need each other most.

Common Examples of Hidden Clauses
            One common example is a clause about debts, where certain expenses must be paid from a specific share of the estate, leaving less for the intended beneficiary. Another is a conditional gift, where someone only inherits if they meet a certain requirement, like caring for a pet, maintaining a property, or even marrying within a particular faith. These may seem unusual, but they do happen, and they can cause plenty of confusion.

The Cost of Overlooking the Fine Print
            The issue isn’t that these clauses exist, it’s that they’re often not explained clearly to the will-maker or their family. Without legal guidance, people can end up with an outcome that no one saw coming. And unfortunately, by the time the will is read, it’s too late to fix it.

How to Avoid Nasty Surprises
            The good news? Hidden clauses don’t have to catch anyone off guard. A well-prepared will, explained in plain language and reviewed regularly, can make all the difference. It’s also important to talk openly with your family about your intentions, so nothing feels like it came out of nowhere.

Wills are more than just a list of who gets what. They’re legal documents where even one small clause can have a big impact. By understanding and reviewing these details with a professional, you can protect your loved ones from stress and uncertainty—and ensure your wishes are carried out exactly as you intended.

If you’re unsure whether your will has any clauses that could cause problems down the track, HazeLegal is here to help make sense of it all and give you peace of mind.

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

What’s on Your Bucket List and Why?

We all have dreams and goals we hope to achieve in our lifetime. Whether it's travelling the world, starting a business, or ensuring your family is financially secure, your bucket list reflects what truly matters to you. But have you considered how estate planning can help turn those dreams into a reality—even beyond your lifetime?

Have you ever sat down and listed all the things you want to do before you go? Maybe you want to visit the Great Barrier Reef, write a book, or make sure your loved ones are taken care of when you’re no longer around. Whatever’s on your bucket list, one thing is certain—planning is key. And that includes planning for the unexpected.

Why Estate Planning Belongs on Your Bucket List

Most people think of a bucket list as a collection of exciting experiences. But what about ensuring your family’s future? That’s just as important as any adventure.

Estate planning is more than just writing a will. It’s about making sure that if something happens to you, your loved ones are financially secure, your wishes are respected, and your hard-earned assets go where you intend them to. With the right documents—like a will, power of attorney, and superannuation nominations—you can tick off the most important item on your bucket list: peace of mind.

So, what’s on your bucket list? Whatever it is, don’t forget to include securing your family’s future. Taking care of your estate now means you can enjoy life with fewer worries, knowing your loved ones will be looked after when it matters most.

Want to make estate planning easy? Speak with us and start ticking things off your list today!

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions.

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

5 Profiles, Blogs, and Podcasts I Actually Follow (And Why You Might Too)

Let’s be real—there’s a lot of content out there. Some of its gold, some of it’s... well, let’s just say I’ve wasted hours of my life I’ll never get back. But every now and then, I stumble across something useful, entertaining, or at least mildly amusing. Since I spend a good chunk of my time in the estate planning world (and life in general), I’ve put together a mix of profiles, blogs, and podcasts that I genuinely enjoy. Not all of them are about wills and estates, but hey, variety is the spice of life, right?

1. The Pineapple Project (Podcast)

If finance podcasts usually put you to sleep, this one might just wake you up. Hosted by comedian Claire Hooper, The Pineapple Project makes talking about money (including estate planning) actually fun. It’s packed with practical advice minus the usual finance jargon that makes your eyes glaze over.

2. Vikki Petraitis - Casefile Presents (Podcast)

Alright, this one has nothing to do with estate planning, but if you love true crime, Vikki Petraitis is an Aussie legend. Her storytelling is top-notch, and who doesn’t love a good mystery? It’s the perfect background noise while pretending to be productive.

3. The Minimalists (Podcast & Blog)

Why I follow: If you’ve ever felt like your life is cluttered—physically or mentally—The Minimalists offer practical advice on simplifying things. They don’t just talk about decluttering your home; they dive into how minimalism can improve finances, relationships, and well-being.

Why you might like it: Their content isn’t about getting rid of everything you own. It’s about making space for what truly matters.

4. Scott Pape - The Barefoot Investor (Blog & Book)

I know, I know—this one’s an obvious choice, but there’s a reason why Scott Pape’s advice is gospel for so many Aussies. His no-BS take on money, investing, and estate planning makes it all seem manageable. Plus, his approach is refreshingly simple (and doesn’t involve sacrificing your daily coffee).

5. The Guilty Feminist (Podcast)

A mix of comedy, feminism, and real talk about modern life. Again, nothing to do with estate planning, but it’s hilarious and thought-provoking, which is a pretty solid combo. Sometimes you just need a break from thinking about wills and beneficiaries.

So, there you have it—five recommendations that won’t make you want to poke your eyes out with a pen. Whether you’re into finance, law, true crime, or just a good laugh, these are all worth checking out. And if you’ve got any favourites, send them my way—I’m always up for adding another distraction to my list!

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions. 

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

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A Song That Stuck With Me (And How It Weirdly Relates to Estate Planning)

There’s a song that’s been living rent-free in my head for years: "You Can’t Always Get What You Want" by The Rolling Stones. Classic tune, right? Catchy melody, solid lyrics, and Mick Jagger doing his thing. But the reason it resonates with me isn’t just nostalgia—it’s because life, and yes, even estate planning, is full of moments where we don’t always get exactly what we want.

The Unexpected Lessons in a Rock Anthem

The song’s message is simple: sometimes, things don’t go our way. But if we plan ahead, we might just get what we need. And honestly, that’s estate planning in a nutshell. No one wants to think about wills, superannuation beneficiaries, or who gets the vintage record collection, but if you don’t, your loved ones might end up with a legal mess instead of a smooth transition.

The "Fairness" Illusion

Let’s be real—when money and assets are involved, family dynamics can get... spicy. Everyone has their own version of "fair." Your kids might expect an even split, your second spouse might think they should get the house, and your best mate might be wondering if that boat you always talked about gifting him is actually coming his way. The reality? You can’t always give everyone exactly what they want, but with a proper plan, you can make sure they get what they need (and minimise the fights in the process).

Procrastination: The Real Villain

Another line from the song? "But if you try sometimes, well, you just might find..." That’s estate planning. If you actually try—as in, get your affairs in order instead of putting it off—you’ll realise it’s not as scary as it sounds. Plus, future you (and your family) will be thanking past you for being proactive.

Final Chorus

Look, I get it. Talking about death and assets isn’t exactly a Saturday night party topic. But thinking ahead—whether for your estate or just life in general—means fewer headaches later on. So, take a note from The Rolling Stones: You might not get everything you want, but with the right planning, you’ll at least get what you need. And that’s a win in my book.

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by HazeLegal for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any decisions. 

HazeLegal works closely with our sister company, WebWills, to bring you these resources.

© HazeLegal, Australia 2025.

What I’m Loving Lately: A Lawyer’s Take on Life and Planning Ahead

You know that feeling when you discover something great and have to tell everyone about it? That’s me right now. Lately, I’ve been loving a few things—some legal, some not—and I thought, why not share them? Consider this a mix of life’s little joys and a friendly nudge to get your affairs in order (because let’s be real, future you will thank you).

1. Digital Decluttering
I finally tackled my inbox. It was either that or let the unread emails hit a number so high that it became someone else’s problem. Turns out that having a system (folders, labels, and actually replying on time) makes life easier. And speaking of organisation, your legal documents should get the same treatment. Wills, powers of attorney, and important files—find them, sort them, and for the love of all things orderly, don’t keep them in a random drawer.

2. Good Coffee
I’ve rediscovered the joy of a properly made flat white. No offence to instant coffee, but life’s too short for bad caffeine. And while we’re on the topic of quality over convenience, the same goes for estate planning. Quick DIY solutions might seem tempting, but a solid, well-prepared plan (preferably not written on the back of a napkin) saves a world of trouble down the track.

3. A Bit of Nostalgia
Recently, I dug up some old photo albums (yes, actual printed photos). There’s something special about flipping through memories, laughing at questionable fashion choices, and remembering what really matters. It’s also a reminder that life moves fast. Having a plan for your loved ones—whether it’s updating your will or making sure your assets don’t disappear into legal limbo—is just another way of looking after them.

4. Long Walks and Podcasts
A solid walk with a good podcast is my current happy place. It’s a great way to clear my head, get some fresh air, and occasionally learn something useful (or at least entertaining). If you’re looking for a sign to get outside, this is it. And while you’re at it, maybe think about ticking ‘update my estate plan’ off your mental to-do list. You know, just for peace of mind.

Life’s about balance—good coffee, organised plans, and the occasional deep dive into nostalgia. I’m all for enjoying the present, but giving a little thought to the future doesn’t hurt either. So, go on, treat yourself to something you love, and if you haven’t sorted your estate plan yet, consider it another way of looking after yourself (and your loved ones).

Until next time—stay caffeinated and legally prepared!

DISCLAIMER

This commentary is published by WebWills for general information only—it’s not legal advice. If you have questions or need advice for your specific situation, we recommend speaking to a lawyer or reaching out to us at http://webwills.com.au before making any decisions. 

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Everything Changed When...

Sometimes life takes an unexpected turn—the kind that stops you in your tracks and makes you question everything. You might not even see it coming, but in hindsight, you realise that moment reshaped your life. These pivotal points can teach us resilience, spark self-discovery, and redefine what truly matters. Let me share a bit about one of those moments in my life and the lessons that followed.

Everything changed when I took a leap of faith and moved away from the familiar. I had always been the kind of person who thrived in my comfort zone. But then an opportunity arose—a job in a new city, far from family, friends, and everything I knew. At first, I hesitated. It felt like too big a risk. But deep down, I knew staying where I was meant staying stagnant.

Packing my life into boxes felt like an adventure—until the loneliness set in. It was hard starting over, harder than I ever imagined. But with every challenge came growth. I learned to rely on myself, to find joy in small wins, and to embrace discomfort as a sign of progress.

I also discovered how important it is to connect with others. By reaching out and building new friendships, I found a community that became my second family. Slowly, the city that once felt foreign became home.

Everything changed, but for the better. That leap of faith taught me more about courage, adaptability, and the beauty of new beginnings than I ever thought possible. Life’s turning points might seem daunting at first, but they often carry the seeds of transformation. So, if you ever find yourself at a crossroads, remember this: growth starts just outside your comfort zone.

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This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A   person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

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How Estate Planning Can Motivate You to Live a Better Life

When most people hear the term "estate planning," they often think about wills, trusts, and the distribution of assets after death. While these aspects are crucial, estate planning encompasses much more than just the legalities of passing on wealth. It can be a powerful motivator for you to reflect on your life, set meaningful goals, and cultivate a sense of purpose. In this blog post, we’ll explore how engaging in estate planning can inspire you to live a better life, not just for yourself, but for those you care about.

Understanding Estate Planning

At its core, estate planning is about making decisions regarding your assets and ensuring your wishes are fulfilled after you're gone. However, it also encourages you to assess your life priorities and values. When you take the time to think about what you want to leave behind—be it financial assets, family heirlooms, or personal values—you begin to realise the importance of living intentionally.

Setting Goals and Priorities

One of the first steps in estate planning is to identify your goals and priorities. What do you value most in life? Is it your family, community, or personal achievements? By defining these aspects, you’re not only preparing for the future but also motivating yourself to focus on what truly matters today. This process can lead you to make decisions that align more closely with your values, encouraging a lifestyle that reflects your priorities.

Inspiring Meaningful Relationships

Estate planning often prompts discussions with family and friends about your wishes and values. These conversations can deepen relationships and foster a sense of community. When you share your plans and aspirations with loved ones, you create a supportive environment that motivates you to strengthen those bonds. After all, living a fulfilling life is often about the connections we make with others.

Encouraging Financial Responsibility

Taking charge of your estate planning means you’ll need to take a closer look at your financial situation. This often leads to a more responsible approach to money management. By setting aside funds for future needs and creating a budget, you can relieve stress and focus on living well today. Financial stability can empower you to pursue your passions, travel, or invest in experiences that enrich your life.

Reflecting on Your Legacy

What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind? Engaging in estate planning gives you the chance to think about your impact on the world. Whether it’s supporting charitable causes, nurturing future generations, or simply instilling values in your loved ones, reflecting on your legacy can motivate you to take action now. Living with the end in mind can inspire you to make choices that contribute to a positive impact, enhancing your sense of purpose.

Life is short

The most valuable aspect of estate planning is that it reminds you that life is short and that we only have one life, so let’s make the best of it. So while people put off thinking about getting their will done because they don’t want to reflect on their own mortality, you should, from time to time, just to ensure that you are wasting one moment of this precious life. Don’t waste your time on trivial things, after all, you won’t be lying on your death bed regretting not fighting with people more or that you didn’t get to scroll on social media more. What would you regret on your deathbed? Now take action to change that.

Estate planning is often viewed as an overwhelming task, but it can also be a transformative experience. By motivating you to reflect on your goals, relationships, and values, estate planning encourages a more intentional and fulfilling life. So, whether you’re just starting your journey or have been putting it off, consider how this important process can inspire you to live better today. After all, life is about more than just what you leave behind; it’s also about how you choose to live in the moment. Embrace the opportunity to shape your future while enriching your present—your life, and those of your loved ones, will thank you for it.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by HazeLegal for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://hazelegal.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A   person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

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Most Moving Music to Play at Your Funeral

Planning your own funeral may feel unusual, but selecting the right music can leave a lasting impact on your loved ones. Music has the power to evoke memories and emotions, making it a crucial part of the farewell. Here are some suggestions for the most moving music to consider for your funeral.

1. "Amazing Grace" by Various Artists

"Amazing Grace" is a timeless hymn that offers comfort and hope. Its soothing melody and profound lyrics resonate with many, making it a popular choice for funerals.

2. "Time to Say Goodbye" by Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman

This powerful duet speaks of farewell and hope, making it a beautiful and emotional addition to any funeral service.

3. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

This rendition of the classic song brings a sense of peace and optimism, reminding us of the beauty beyond life's struggles.

4. "Ave Maria" by Franz Schubert

"Ave Maria" is a classical piece that brings a sense of serenity and reverence, often chosen for its calming and spiritual qualities.

5. "My Way" by Frank Sinatra

For those who lived life on their terms, "My Way" is a fitting tribute. Its reflective lyrics and iconic melody celebrate a life well-lived.

6. "Hallelujah" by Leonard Cohen (Jeff Buckley version)

"Hallelujah" is a poignant song that captures a range of emotions. The Jeff Buckley version is particularly moving, making it a heartfelt choice for funerals.

7. "Canon in D" by Johann Pachelbel

This classical piece is often associated with weddings but also serves as a beautiful and uplifting choice for funerals, symbolizing continuity and peace.

8. "Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler

This song honors those who have supported and uplifted us, making it a touching tribute to loved ones left behind.

9. "Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton

Written by Clapton after a personal tragedy, "Tears in Heaven" speaks to loss and the hope of reunion, making it a deeply emotional choice.

10. "You Raise Me Up" by Josh Groban

"You Raise Me Up" is a powerful song that celebrates the strength we gain from our loved ones, offering comfort and inspiration.

Planning a funeral can be a challenging time, but choosing meaningful music can help create a memorable and moving service. Let WebWills assist you in making these important decisions. Call us at (03) 9028 7603 or email info@webwills.com.au for assistance in planning your funeral or other estate matters.

Disclaimer:

The music choices listed are suggestions and should be selected based on personal preference and the deceased's wishes. HazeLegal does not endorse any specific songs but provides these recommendations to assist in the planning process.

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Things I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self

As I've listened to feedback from my clients, I've come to appreciate the wisdom in planning for the future, especially when it comes to end-of-life preparations. Here are insights gleaned from their experiences that they wish they could share with their younger selves:

1. Start Saving Early

Many clients express regret over not starting to save money earlier. They emphasize that having a financial safety net not only prepares you for unexpected emergencies but also ensures long-term security and freedom.

2. Invest in Health

Prioritizing health from a younger age is a common sentiment among clients. They stress the importance of regular exercise, a balanced diet, and routine check-ups to maintain well-being and enjoy life fully.

3. Create a Will

Understanding the significance of having a will early on is crucial. Creating a will ensures assets are distributed as desired, alleviating stress for loved ones during difficult times.

4. Establish Powers of Attorney

Designating powers of attorney for financial and healthcare decisions is seen as essential. Clients recommend doing this early to protect personal interests and ensure trusted individuals can act on their behalf if necessary.

5. Have Open Conversations

Clients wish they had been more open with family about end-of-life wishes. They stress the importance of discussing healthcare preferences and funeral arrangements to ensure these wishes are respected.

6. Plan for Long-Term Care

Planning for long-term care options earlier is advised. Clients suggest considering financial preparations and support options to maintain quality of life in later years.

7. Document Important Information

Organizing essential documents like insurance policies and bank accounts is important. Having everything readily accessible can significantly reduce stress for family members.

8. Consider Your Digital Legacy

Acknowledging the importance of managing digital assets is emphasized. Clients recommend ensuring loved ones know how to handle online accounts and digital presence.

9. Embrace Life Fully

Balancing planning for the future with living in the present is a recurring theme. Clients are urged to take risks, travel, and spend time with loved ones to create meaningful memories.

10. Leave a Legacy of Love

Focusing on building strong relationships and leaving behind cherished memories is considered the most valuable legacy. Clients emphasize the impact of kindness and love on those around them.

Thinking about end-of-life planning might seem somber, but it’s a powerful tool for ensuring a better life and legacy. By taking steps to plan for the future, you not only secure your peace of mind but also leave a lasting, positive impact on your loved ones. So, take these tips to heart and start planning today for a brighter tomorrow.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A   person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

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What will your Tombstone say?

Our epitaph is the world’s lasting view of us, a summary of our lives, and what we stood for.

What will your tombstone say about you? Entrepreneur, hard worker, professional, scroller of social media, binger of Netflix?

Or it says, most beloved parent, child or spouse?

What do you want it to say? For that is how you must live your life.

We often get busy with the minutiae of life and forget about what is important.

It is your executor who will choose the inscription on your tombstone, so now you know who to impress. Haven’t appointed an executor? Then maybe writing your Will should be the next thing on your To-do list. Contemplating your passing does not have to be scary, it can be a wake-up call – before it’s too late – on what you want from this one short and crazy life!

Here are a few famous tombstones to inspire you.

Emily Dickinson (Author) (1830-1886)

“Called Back”

Referring to the last words that she ever wrote in a letter to her cousins, but also the title of a novella she loved by Hugh Conway.

And not a reference to a phone scam.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616)

  "Good friend for Jesus' sake forbear,

  To dig the dust enclosed here.

  Blessed be the man that spares these stones,

  And cursed be he that moves my bones."

I think someone was a little concerned about grave robbers. Though probably not unfounded.

Rosa Parks (1913 – 2005)

“Mother of the Civil Rights Movement”

I think we can all agree on that one.

A fitting tribute to her monumental impact on history.

Winston Churchill (1874-1965)

"I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter."

Churchill's wit and wisdom even in death.

Mel Blanc (1908-1989)

"That's All Folks!"

The famous sign-off of the man behind many beloved cartoon voices.

Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968)

"Free at last, Free at last, Thank God Almighty I'm Free at last."

Echoing his immortal words from the civil rights movement.

Merv Griffin (1925-2007)

"I will not be right back after this message."

A humorous nod to his career as a television host.

Frank Sinatra (1915-1998)

"The Best Is Yet To Come."

A hopeful message from the legendary singer.

J.R.R. Tolkien (1892-1973)

"Beren" and "Lúthien"

A touching reference to his epic love story from "The Silmarillion." He shares the grave with his wife Mary, who is referred to as Luthien and he as Beren, two great loves.

Johnny Cash (1932-2003)

"I walk the line."

Summarising his life and music career in just a few words.

Mae West (1893-1980)

"Come up and see me some time."

A cheeky nod to her famous catchphrase.

Billy Wilder (1906-2002)

“I'm a writer but then nobody's perfect.”

Only a writer could pen those words.

Edgar Allan Poe (1809-1849)

“Quoth the Raven, Nevermore.”

A fitting tribute to his most famous poem “The Raven” and its interpretation that nothing can be done to change the situation of he who lies there. Very clever indeed.

Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)

“The body of Benjamin Franklin, Printer, Like the cover of an old book, Its contents are torn out, And stripped of its lettering and gilding, Lies here, food for worms. But the work shall not be lost, For it will, as he believed, appear once more, In a new and more elegant edition, Revised and corrected by the Author.”

Reflecting his view on death and life beyond.

Bette Davis (1908-1989)

“She did it the hard way.”

Having succeeded in Hollywood when the pressures against women were even greater than they are now. She was the first woman to be awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award by the American Film Institute

George Washington Carver (1864-1943)

“He could have added fortune to fame, but caring for neither, he found happiness and honour in being helpful to the world.”

Words to live by, and a wonderful legacy to leave.

Planning your legacy is as important as living it. These epitaphs remind us to consider what we want our final message to the world to be. By planning your estate now, you can ensure that your legacy reflects your values and what you stood for. If you need help with estate planning, don't hesitate to reach out. Your legacy is worth securing.

DISCLAIMER

This is a commentary published by WebWills for general information purposes only. This is not meant to be taken as particular advice. You should seek your own legal and other advice for any question, or any specific situation or proposal, or get in touch with the writer at http://webwills.com.au before making any final decision. The content also is subject to change. A person listed may not be admitted as a lawyer in all States and Territories.

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